I’m not sure where I draw the line when it comes to suing somebody. It would have to be fairly egregious. I don’t have much in the way of a structured philosophy of life, but a lot of it boils down to the “shit happens” school. Some of it happens to me, but I rarely think it’s happening at me, or that there’s any flinging involved, or a flinger.
I am a light consumer of the legal trade.
I do know I would not have thought to sue the owner of the town donkey for chomping me on the thigh. The donkey chomped, not the owner. But you have to sue the owner unless you intend to get recompensed in oats.
Nevertheless that is what happened in tiny Mitchell, Oregon, population 137. A woman who encountered the donkey and tried to “secure” it and get it back to its owner got a chunk taken out of her thigh and felt a lawsuit coming on. Everyone in town knew the donkey, whose name was Hiway. She knew the donkey, I assume, since she was trying to get him to go back home. By all accounts he was an upstanding donkey employed in the field of lawn-mowing. The woman’s lawyer contended the donkey was “loose,” a time-honored gambit of character assassination. She wants $49,500 for her injury.
I could have retired from the post office even earlier than I did if I’d sued for every dog bite I got. I have been bitten five times on my postal route—or, in the case of the first incident, on my ass. And back in the ‘70s, $250,000 was real money. That first one was early in my career and as an incident it seemed a little cartoonish, the hapless mailman trying to climb a tree with a dog in hot pursuit. I had to knock on the neighbor’s door, and she got out the Mercurochrome and a swab and I dropped my drawers and it was this whole thing. They aren’t allowed to sell Mercurochrome anymore, by the way.
Nevertheless, since I had been trying harder than I should have to deliver mail to a mailbox with an attack Golden Retriever under it—don’t scoff, that was one yellow bastard—I realized I’d more or less asked for it. It took the next four dog bites for me to put the Neither Rain Nor Sleet bit behind me. I had so much pride. But at a certain point, America, you can just pick up your Christmas catalogs and mattress-sale flyers at the post office.
The Postal Service would have happily sued on my behalf, but I like to retain customer relations. The last dog that bit me—on the biceps—was a miniature whippet, but I was kneeling to get the mail in a slot at the bottom of the door. The puncture marks were still visible a year later. Those people were rich as hell. But I liked them.
I don’t know how you can tell a donkey is likely to bite you. I know about dogs. I can tell when dogs are feeling chompy, and their owners are generally right there telling you they’re friendly. That’s a giveaway. I do remember being a child on vacation in South Dakota when we had to stop for some donkeys in the road. The donkey came up and licked my side window. I was so thrilled I never wanted that window washed again. Unfortunately, this was 1960. You pull into a gas station in 1960, your windows gon’ get washed. Someone’s gon’ to check your dipstick, hand you a map, tip his cap, and call you “Ma’am.” Donkey slobber don’t stand a chance.
Anyway, I don’t think much of the woman suing the donkey owner. I mean, it was the town donkey. Maybe the $49,000 is a ploy to get half that, and she really, really needs a new roof. I don’t know. Strikes me as being kind of like if I’d sued that neighbor lady for swabbing mercury on my ass.
I just hope the donkey countersued for getting thigh meat stuck in his teeth. He’s a vegetarian, after all.
I would like to say thank you for your service, and I really do mean that–I’ve always greatly admired you mail carriers and the weather, people (and pets) you had to contend with daily. I think I would’ve gone postal at the first dog that bit my ass no pun intended! PS. Mercurochrome is no longer sold? Is nothing sacred?
According to the internet, Why is Mercurochrome banned?
The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) banned mercurochrome as an over-the-counter antiseptic in 1998 due to its inefficacy in killing micro-organisms, its staining property and the fear of mercury toxicity from mercurochrome being absorbed through the skin.
When I first got contacts, all the saline solutions had mercury (thimerosal) as a preservative. They made my eyes red and itchy, so I had to make my own saline nightly, and use a small sterilizer unit for my lenses every night.
Also, I still have some silver amalgam tooth fillings (again, made with mercury) from back in the day. Now they use something tooth colored. My hygienist tells me that someday I may need to replace the silver fillings with the modern ones. I’m like, WTF for? I’m 68. If I haven’t succumbed to mercury poisoning by now, I probably won’t.
I’d have kept my amalgam fillings forever, but they went bad. Creeping decay underneath. The dentist’s photographs of them were quite convincing.
Many dentists say “ more dangerous to remove, if not needed…. Than to leave in place”
Yeah, but if they don’t do unnecessary procedures, who’s gonna pay for their boat?
P.S. Bactine is sacred!
The one that really chaps me–and I have blogged about it–is that you can’t buy Parke-Davis throat discs anymore, which are the ONLY thing that will stop one of those cough-till-you-puke coughs. JUST because of a little dab of chloroform.
Hmm–never heard of those throat discs, but I do remember chloroform being on the news in the early 70s, getting banned because of cancer or something? Now I must research… as for Susan’s Bactine, I haven’t heard that spray’s name since 1971! Anyway, I apologize for veering off course here, I’ve never even seen a donkey up close.
I’m told those aren’t donkeys in my photo. They’re burros. Same thing as far as I’m concerned. Dang cute.
“ Hee Haw”
When I lived in Ashland I really and truly lived next to a Donkey Farm, and when we lived in Helix, we lived in a huge farmhouse with a whole herd of mules in the fields all around us. I know that the girls used to climb up on the mules back when they were laying down and got a bit of a ride before they were bucked off and one of Mr. Kupers fabulous mules bit him on the arm once… just a love bite. ahhhh those were the days… I too subscribe to the “shit happens” way of life… especially if you are not paying attention…
You are a cool parent.
Telling what a dog is likely to do is a betting game. Yeah, the owner saying it’s friendly is a red flag. There was a lady on my walking route who got malicious pleasure out of letting her dog off its leash and then telling people it was friendly as it came bounding up and tried to take a piece out of me. I know she enjoyed it because she cackled every time it happened.
I’ve been bitten by several friendly dogs. One of them was just a few weeks ago. I think he actually was friendly, but he thought that biting hard enough to hurt was part of being friendly. The people who were with him assured me he was friendly. Maybe he was, but maybe he was a sadist.
There was a lady in our neighborhood who was very litigious back when that was an unusual thing in NJ. Of course she wasn’t as litigious as the new people who moved in and announced they could afford to live there because they had made a killing in a lawsuit. No one played or talked to the kid who lived there. Lawsuit just waiting to happen.
But the first lady, we had the misfortune of our young Lab getting loose one day and deciding she was on a mission from God to greet everyone she met and that included jumping up on them. This lady’s daughters got scratched and she marched down and demanded that our dog get put down. My mom talked her down and we never went near that house again. Or talked to her daughters. Who were my age and cute.
Horses and donkeys, they’ll bite you without giving a second thought, especially if you’re fool enough to distract them from their appointed rounds.
Well horses are downright scary. I’m not a bit surprised. But lookit them cute donkeys! Awww!
One of the houses I used to walk by with the dog had a pit bull. I became aware of it one day when the old woman who lived there opened her front door and let it out just as we were passing by, whereupon it charged the living daylights out of me and my little Sheltie, Bingo. There was a dog altercation but we got away when the old woman came out into the road and got hold of the animal. I remember yelling in her face, why do you even KEEP a dog like that? They tied it to the front porch and it ripped the porch railing off. So I mostly gave up walking that way.
One day I did happen to walk by and the son of the woman came out and flagged me, and said he just wanted to let me know I had no more worries about the dog, because it had died. I said, oh, well, thanks for letting me know. And how is your mom? Oh, he said, she’s also dead.
Win-win!
Angela Merkel was (is) terrified of dogs due to a trauma in her youth, and it’s no secret, so Putin made a point of letting his dog off the leash when meeting her.
My brother-in-law had a friend who made his living late in life (I don’t recall what became of his earlier career as a real-estate developer) by engineering situations in which he could claim injury, and then suing. Not my style, to say the least.
Putin. Seriously. I cannot believe how much trouble a few highly disturbed men can cause in this world.
They don’t work alone — they always depend on enablers, and there’s no dearth of them, even if they are unknown to us.
‘Floosie’ is also a time-honored gambit of character assassination.
She probably said “My way for the Hiway” and the donkey bit her for the sheer audacity.
My nephew had a donkey named Jeff who was known for biting. He got me.
I think “Jeff” is a super name for a donkey. They look like Jeffs.
Only slightly related to the post…I often drive in the winter weekends on a Sunday, just to get out of the house. On one of my routes, south of Butte, was a small spread that had a donkey (or burro, not sure now), that would be standing still, head down, snow accumulating on it’s back. It looked pissed. I figured it might have been raised in Mexico, and wondered why it was this far north.
I’d bet it would have bit me if I’d gone up to it.
You just reminded me of the “Sunday drive!” We used to pile in the Studebaker of a Sunday and just tootle around. Weird.
Nah, that was fun even in the 80s. Paul and I used to get in the car in the middle of the night with a 4-pack of Bartles and James (That’s how long ago it was) and just drive around. We would try to get lost, but I had mad navigational skills, so I would recognize roads we had to get on to go home. Man, those were some good times!
Great post. It made me think of the scene in the Wizard of Oz when Miss Gulch is coming to Dorothy’s farm to get Toto and Dorothy’s dad is playing dumb with her. “You mean she bit ya?” “No, her dog!” “Oh, she bit her dog?” Then let’s the gate slam into Miss Gulch’s ass.
I’m with you on the “shit happens” philosophy and not getting into unnecessary legal actions or pointless anger. This week a nice lady in a VW van hit our car in the rear tail light as she was pulling into the adjacent parking space. I was walking out of the hardware store and saw & heard it happen. We exchanged insurance info and I told her not to worry…stuff happens. She felt bad enough without me getting angry about it.
I have been rear-ended before, enough to cause a scratch or slight dent, and gotten out to look, and told the offender Merry Christmas and to go on her way. It’s one of the perks to having a shitty-looking old car.
Okay… first of all, I’m juvenile enough to have snickered at you “being rear-ended.” Yeah… not one of my prouder moments. Anyhoo, I have several times, when someone rear-ended me (snickers again. DAMMIT!) that I just said, no harm no foul. I’m not going to get this small scratch dealt with. If you’re okay with that, I am. Problem solved.
Well, I’ve personally been rear-ended too, but it wasn’t all that funny at the time.
We got once-removed-rear-ended once at a stoplight. A car hit the car behind us, pushing that car into ours, but not hard enough to do any damage. My wife later insisted it was the loudest sound she’d ever heard, OK, but she kept insisting I agree with that opinion, which I didn’t. Anyway, the wife of the driver that caused the collision told us that her husband’s Crocs got tangled in the pedals when he tried to brake, so he failed to stop. Not a good ad for Crocs.