On Beethoven’s third birthday in 1773, demonstrators irrelevantly threw an entire ship’s cargo of tea into the Boston Harbor. It was a really big deal at the time, because it made the lobsters all zippy, and ultimately culminated in the American Revolution. The colonists didn’t want to pay taxes to a parliament overseas they had no control over or representation in. Those were simpler times. These days people just admit they don’t want to pay taxes from governments they did elect.

I have a large stash of tea on a high shelf in a cupboard. I don’t drink tea, but apparently every year or so I get the notion I should have a variety on hand for people who do. They haven’t shown up yet. If anyone does drop by with a hankering for fifteen-year-old dead leaves, they’ll be all set. Because I won’t throw them out.

In general I seem to have an ethic instilled in me early, that one is not supposed to waste things. You don’t keep a light on in an unoccupied room. You don’t stand in front of the refrigerator with the door open. Get in, get out. You definitely don’t waste food.

That wasn’t much trouble in my family. Dad didn’t dish out too much of anything on the plate, small islands with plenty of real estate separating them, but we were expected to eat it all, and we didn’t have a dog. There were some difficult moments and protracted meals involving beets and lima beans but those were few and far between.

Even now I will store tiny amounts of leftovers in the refrigerator and not throw them out until I can’t tell if they’re meat or cake. Even then they’ll go to the back row first just in case something clears up. Eventually I realize if I can’t tell what it is, it’s time to let it go, or it will be in another year.

But I eat everything on my plate. Always. That was the rule. There won’t be a grain of rice left. Of course, I like rice. But this feels like a compulsion. Hunger doesn’t have anything to do with it. Last year I ordered a Reuben sandwich at an establishment known for good food. It was wretched. It was slimy. The meat was rubbery and gray. It looked like porpoise skin with phlegm sauce. I soldiered through 3/4 of it before realizing people leave portions on their plates all the time, especially at restaurants. I believe it is the first time I have ever done so.

So you can imagine my dismay when we were walking in the neighborhood and found some people pumping fresh beer out of three kegs and into the storm sewer. I gasped audibly. The people did look unhappy about it. “We have to return the kegs empty,” they said. “It was for a non-profit fundraiser and we just couldn’t drink it all.” If we had a growler, they said, we were welcome to take some home.

I hesitated. We do have a growler or two somewhere, and I’m not so precious that I’ve never had a beer before noon, but I’ve been cutting down. Still: this was a scene that hurt the heart.

I’m not sure why I think all that beer should take a short trip through someone’s personal tubing before going down the sewer. But I do. It’s probably not exactly what Mom and Dad were trying to teach me, but there you go.