Mom sent me to school with a Quick Draw McGraw lunch box. It contained a peanut butter and butter sandwich on homemade white bread, wrapped in wax paper. A bag of Fritos. And Gerber’s Strained Apricot because I liked it, but in a different container so I wouldn’t be embarrassed. For fifteen cents a week, we got a small carton of milk.

One day this girl in fourth grade showed up with a little bag of jewels in her lunch. They were gorgeous. And she gave me some and they were the best thing I ever ate. Mostly we ate casseroles from the Minute Rice and Campbell’s Soup families, so it might have been a low bar. But still.

They were pomegranate seeds.

I was indulged with a pomegranate every year after that. I carefully excavated my way into them with the delicacy of a safecracker and coaxed off layers of seeds without spilling a drop. It looked like a gift from royalty.

When I learned you could grow desert-Mediterranean pomegranates in Portland, I was all over it. I planted one and it grew a bit and then one year it exploded with fiery orange blossoms followed by real pomegranates and when they were about ping-pong size the whole shrub keeled over. The next one I planted did the same thing, only with far fewer flowers. It occurred to me that where I went wrong was not tending it while wearing a long white tunic and sandals. That would have made it feel more confident. I put on my bathrobe and flip-flops and planted a third.

The third one made it through a couple flower-free summers, but eventually about half of it keeled over. I staked up the remainder, reasoning that the now-older trunk might have gotten stout enough to hold up new growth the next year. And it sort of did. The new growth is on the rangy side, though, and wants to flop over. Especially if it gets a dab of water on it. Such heavy, heavy drops on those tiny princess leaves! “I swan,” my pomegranate said, raising the back of a long branch to its botanical forehead, “won’t these blessed rains never cease,” and then it done swooned all the way to the ground.

We had the normal amount of rain this summer. None. And then we had a decent downpour in the beginning of September, for a few hours. It was a welcome event. My pomegranate, however, has keeled over. And this year it had a pomegranate on it. Ordinarily I’d clip up the debris and cart it away, but I’m leaving the sucker right where it is in case the pomegranate keeps growing. I can put it on the counter next to the single squash I got from my $4 squash plant. (I had two, but a squirrel took one chomp out of one of them and stranded it in the path.)

One thing a good gardener does in these situations is to try replanting in a different location. Plants are little fuss-bottoms. But every time I got a new pomegranate in a pot, I’d look around the garden for an empty spot, and the sucker always ended up in the same place. It’s “the place where the pomegranate goes,” in my dense logic. It makes just as much sense to pull the old plant out, wait 30 seconds, and then plug it right back in.

That might work, actually.

Addendum. When I went out to check on my pomegranate, it was missing. Turned up stranded in the path with one chomp out of it.