I don’t mean to run on and on, but the gastrointestinal distress occasioned by my annual salted-peanut blowout during the World Series has led me to investigate what the worst-case scenario might be. Can you die of such a thing, or just wish you could, like a Yankee who lost the game he was ahead by five runs in?
I did fine this time. I had only three pounds of peanuts over four days, rather than the five pounds I was once accustomed to. It wasn’t anything I couldn’t handle. But you never know how long you can keep up that kind of self-abuse. Things happen as you age, without your permission. Things grow on you. Things grow in you. Unauthorized things. And it can sneak up. It’s been at least fifteen years since my gynecologist cheerfully informed me I had “thinning tissues,” which is startling, when everything feels normal from the inside; but on the outside your lady bits look like Homer Simpson’s dad’s face.
Later the thinning tissues are more obvious, even to casual onlookers with no intimate privileges. Spots suddenly appear on your skin that had been cooking up since your teenage years, when you lay in the sun all oiled up like a moron. They’ve been there all along; but the thicker flesh of youth hid them. Your biceps develop draperies. You can hear things flapping when you walk. Sometimes you get a bruise from a stiff breeze.
So, it occurred to me recently, it stands to reason all your issues thin. Including the ones on the inside. And perhaps that nice reliable intestinal lining that has served you so heroically all this time is getting threadbare and shreddy. Maybe something could poke a hole in it. That’s not what you want in your poop chute. Perhaps, I thought, I could buy the little bags for the World Series. Or forgo the peanuts altogether. Unless the Red Sox are in it, of course—I’m not an animal.
They specifically tell you to not eat peanuts for, like, a week before your colonoscopy, so I have to assume they’re hanging out in there causing trouble. Worse, I don’t chew them up very well. I only have two molars that match up, and besides, chewing gets in the way of wolfing. I might as well thread pine cones in series on a string and pull it through the maze.
Well, evidently aging changes your cells in numerous obnoxious ways, which means nothing works as well as it used to. The problem is we are chock full of cells. Damn cells. They can get larger, and less able to divide and multiply, leading to a surplus of cranky old cells, including in the intestinal tract, where your digestive juices motor around with the turn-signal on the whole way.
There’s no avoiding it. I had a gentleman on my mail route who was an extraordinary physical specimen. He was weight-lifting 50 minutes a day into his late nineties, and owned pretty much all the world records for swimmers over eighty. Track and field, too. He could still walk on his hands at age 89. (I am unconscious thirty seconds after being held upside-down.) He finally died at age 104. Some sort of bowel blowout, as I recall. Done in by his own epithelial tissue.
It could happen to me, too. If I’m still around in 2057 and the Red Sox are in the World Series, I’m a goner.
What an interesting topic…..
Handled with grace and dignity, as usual, smile.
I do wish I couldn’t relate, but alas… I’m currently on a quest to find means to make mine receptive to the idea the bowels need to move things right along, with some regularity (so to speak).
My MD, who has learned not to use cliche’s like “Well, you are gettin’ on, y’know”, is currently taking a ‘good luck’ stance, and ‘let me know’…
I’ve learned having a nice rib roast leftover sandwich for lunch, and leftover rib roast stroganoff for dinner isn’t a good idea, if I want my lower intestines to not ruminate for a few days on what I’ve sent them.
If you come up with something, let me know.
Cheers
Water? I’m no expert. I’ve been lucky. I think my good health is primarily luck, but I don’t care for that “Well, you’re getting on” stance on the part of doctors, and would maybe suggest you talk to a good naturopath. I haven’t been to one but I think they’ve got a different and good perspective.
I first read the title as “I would like to apologize FOR my body”. Which I guess isn’t too far off either. I’m nearly at the point where I’m going to announce to the chorus at the beginning of each month: “I’m on a vegan diet. So this is for the rest of the month: ‘EXCUSE ME!!!’
Everyone’s going to be wincing at those high notes, huh?
I’m glad (I think) that I’m not the only respondent with digestive trouble. It’s a sad state of affairs when a person (this person) is envious of the size and volume produced by one of the dogs on my walking route.
I thought I’d figured out what food items were causing the various crises and interruptions of service. Of course it might not be food allergies. Might be something more dire, yee-hah.
The upshot or downshot as it were is I will be avoiding the imminent eating holiday and instead eating what’s become a very bland and abbreviated meal and staying far away from temptation.
Best wishes to the rest of you!
Thanks Bruce! Happy Thanksgiving to you too.
At the risk of TMI, I tend to get up to poop in the wee hours of the morning. Sometimes a couple times in succession. Yes, it disrupts my sleep, but at least I am regular. I eat a lot of grains, and when I eat a lot of vegetables, boy, howdy, do I have to go! I also eat a lot of beans. I take psyllium every morning as well. I find that it is mostly mental distress that upsets my digestive system. Also my skin. As my husband Paul recently died, that can’t be helped.
I prefer not to eat most meat products, but as Paul was a carnivore, and I have a freezer, I have to use this stuff up. I prefer seafood, grains, and veggies. Once I use up the meat, I will no doubt shift to a Meditteranean diet. It’s cheaper and healthier. Sadly, most of my friends are not big meat eaters, so I have to use this up myself.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. I hope you are doing ok, and can find a way to be….I don’t know. At peace?
My thoughts are with you. My wife died some years back, I know it never go’s away, but it recedes somewhat.
Mike
Thank you, Mike. Even though neither of us had close family, the people he worked with/for have become family. I’m having Thanksgiving dinner with one new friend/co-worker, and Sunday they are closing the restaurant and having a Celebration of Life for him. I am overwhelmed by the kindness and love that they have shown. It almost makes me think that there is hope for humanity. Almost.
Very sad news, Mimi — so sorry.
Oh, honey. I’m so sorry you lost Paul.
Thank you, Murr. ((hugs))
Hi Mimi: I’m very sorry to hear about Paul.
Thank you, Bruce. Cancer sucks.
So sorry to hear of your loss, feel like we lost a family member.
He was a funny guy. A real goofball. I never realized how funny until I went through our photo albums for pictures for his celebration of life. I started laughing. It was a refreshing change.
So sorry to hear, Mimi ❤️
I developed IBD, irritable bowel disorder in my sixties. Sometimes things are nearly normal and predictable, but then a thing will happen and my bowels ain’t having it. They’re fed up, and they aren’t gonna take it anymore. So my innards haven’t had a peaceful day since the election. It’s one thing to fear for the future of democracy, but when your colon decides independently to take to the streets to stage a semi-violent protest, well it’s hard to get anything else done. It’s going to be a highly irritable four years.
And, Mimi, I am very sorry to learn of your loss.
…”to the streets?” Aaagh.
Metaphorical hyperbole is my default mode of expression.
Mine too, but in the case of IBD, it could get real in a second.
I’m guessing IBD is the same as IBS. Been dealing with that since my thirties, but wasn’t as careful with my diet back then as I am now. And most definitely sympathize with you over fears for the next four years, hopefully not more. I thought the first four were a horror show and this time around it’s horrible and he isn’t even in office yet!
Sounds to ,e like “Should Fish More” needs more fibre and water in his/her diet. It’s easy enough if you like fruits and vegetables, but if you don’t there are additives you can add to water and drink daily. For vegetables, leafy greens are good and watery things like tomatoes, for fruits, fresh pears are excellent at helping things “move along”, though it might take a few days to become effective if you are long-term backed up.
Or, you can eat as you wish, and buy a plumbing snake.
Wolfing Peanuts, my new band name!
You’re welcome!