Look at this cool shirt. I could rock that shirt. I want that shirt. And Marketing knows full well that this is the shirt I want, which is why it’s on my Facebook page. It’s hard to not click on the sucker.
I have learned, however. I am still stung from ordering that adorable slouchy pair of overalls that struck the right notes of casual, comfy, and a little sexy. Many weeks later, I was in possession of an article of clothing that made me look like a halibut with a bad tailor.
But I didn’t learn that quickly. There was another super cheap thing and it was just a tunic; a sort of sleek, silvery number. If I could get it over my head, there weren’t a lot of ways it could go wrong. And I could: it went right over my head. I could walk around inside it without touching the rest of the material. Which was made of recycled pop-tops. I looked like a fuselage. They’d give me a full refund if I sent it back to Guangzhou for about seventy bucks postage. A little more, if I filled it with shit first.
So I’m done. The sites are easy enough to spot. First, they are selling something you absolutely do want to have. They’re good at that. Ball gowns and skank outfits do not appear on my social media pages. No, nothing but fabulous artistic designs with street-pajama flair and a certain post-hippie insouciance.
But the company has a name like Flotsjilly or Silkidor or Juicyju or Discoviery or some other computer-generated concoction somewhere between English and an overturned box of suffixes. And the come-on is not the work of a native English speaker either. Valanio: “Don’t miss out this chance to get changed!” Hlelu: “You would look a million dollars in this sweater!” And my favorite, from Starlystar: “Get it before it’s still available.”
And, the dead giveaway: this thing you absolutely do want is really, really, really inexpensive. So inexpensive you are tempted to order it because how bad could it be?
Really, really, really bad. If you sit still too long, a Bedouin will slip inside your dress with you and start hawking trinkets. The fellow in Receiving at Goodwill will run after you yelling if you try to drop and dash. Carhartt makes a sleeker blouse.
If it’s a shirt, it’s depicted on one hundred pounds of long-legged model, displaying the French Tuck—that is, it’s tucked in the very front only and draped attractively elsewhere. On a real body, it’s the front-end equivalent of getting your skirt hiked up in your underpants. It just looks like a mistake.
Does it say the fabric is smooth and soft? That copy was written by a crocodile. Is it sustainably made? Yes, in the sense that the garment will never disintegrate in a landfill. Does it hang attractively on the model? On you it will jut out awkwardly as if it had boning. Is it 100% cotton? It’s 100% not. It’s made of petroleum and splinters. It is constructed in a torrid, windowless warehouse on continuously racing sewing machines that seven-year-olds are taught to shoot the fabric through. The imperfections that are “part of the natural fabric” are fingertips.
No extra charge. They’ve got that baked into the price.
That’s pretty funny – I, too, have been lured in and won’t be again.
Took me at least twice.
This was a funny read, and that IS a cool shirt for a Murr like yourself, but I think it’s time we declared war on China. Oh and don’t order anything from Etsy either, they’ve gone to the dark side!
Shoot, I don’t know anything about Etsy! I thought it was just a bunch of home crafters!
At one time it was home crafters and a different sort of eBay aimed more at crafters. Then it exploded into who knows what all. I’ve heard horror stories about what’s required to be an Etsy seller. I know eBay has gotten to the point that it’s hardly worth it to sell anything on it.
Yes, yes, yes! My favorite is “styled for mature women” but pictured on that same 23-year-old nymph.
She might be wise beyond her years. You never know.
I’ve bought tshirts from Facebook vendors that were reasonably priced and the image held up for the first few washings before fading and cracking. Now I pretty much stick to Duluth Trading long tailed Ts. They fit and hold up well, even if they don’t have a cute image on them.
I’ve heard all kinds of horror stories about buying clothes online. I think one was a bridal dress at a ridiculously low price, but was a doll dress when it arrived. I did hear about someone buying a dining room table and chairs at a low price on eBay and was delivered as dollhouse furniture.
It does explain the cheap shipping rate.
Brandy Hellville and the Cult of Fast Fashion on HBO. Sickening.
Will check it out. When I feel stronger.
Anytime you’re thinking you’re too intelligent to be duped, you’ve likely underestimated the motivation of the duper. And there are some hyper-motivated dupers out there. Me, I was 1964 Intelligent. Now, I’m 60 years dumber. But at least I’m in good company, eh?
I would like to think so.
I buy most of our housewares, clothing, cosmetics, and pet stuff online. But only from companies I’ve dealt with and were happy with before. (For household goods, Wayfair; clothing, Boden for me, Lands’ End for Paul; cosmetics, Sephora; and pet stuff, Chewy. I NEVER click on ads, even if it is a company I regularly use (like Vitamin Shoppe). I don’t like to encourage ads, so I go to the website if I need something. These established companies are more expensive than Amazon (who has a lot of foreign companies of dubious integrity under its umbrella), but I go for quality over quantity.
Also, I hardly ever get ads, as I have the AdBlock app. The only place it doesn’t work is YouTube, because they recently started a thing where if you HAVE AdBlock (and they can detect it), you only get like 3 freebies and then you’re cut off. I simply CANNOT be cut off from YouTube, at is is a valuable resource for me, so I cut the AdBlock for YouTube. But I ignore the ads and don’t click on them. Whenever I can “skip”, I do. Other places, like the Peacock network, have ads, but they are mostly like the ones you would see on TV (drug companies mostly) and give a countdown to the return of the program. I take this as a challenge. Can I pee AND refresh my drink in 60 seconds? Hell, yeah!
Also, a lot of websites have a “cookie policy”, where you can (easily) click on “accept all cookies.” However, if you click on the policy itself in order to “personalize cookies”, you can scroll down and only do the cookies vital to performance, and opt out of the ones that target you for ads.
Now I want cookies.
There are some very cool shirts of this type at the Bird Alliance of Oregon‘s nature store. Jane has a few, which I love. I think you would too, Murr. And you can try them on and check them out before buying them.
Hey thanks! I have a nice one from Backyard Bird Shop. Is this the shop in the Audubon on Cornell Rd?
But it was so cute!
The picture of it was so cute.
I do love the sleek, blond, cute model photographed from the nose down only.
That’s eye-catching!
I must admit I succumbed to one with a cute cat on it.
That shirt has been appearing in my FB feed lately also. I am studiously ignoring it, and all it’s charming looking fellows.
You have to admit: they know what we want.
I’m sitting in a restaurant laughing until I’m crying!! Been there, done that. My tip is don’t order luggage, even when they promise you to send two at no extra charge. Ask me why.
Why?
Why?
All of those reasons are why I only buy clothes online from K-Mart or Target and only rarely. I wear what I have until it almost falls to shreds in the washer and then go to a store to check the fabric and fit.
I ordered some socks …. purple. When I took them off in the evening, my feet looked like they had been stomping grapes all day! GAAAA!
Lucy, you have some ‘splaining to do!
I ordered some socks …. purple. When I took them off in the evening, it looked my feet had been stomping grapes all day! GAAAA!
OH NOOOO!!!
I won a shirt at a bird club raffle. It was adorable. Little tiny birds all over it. I have never worn it, because it was apparently made to fit the frightening doll called Patty Playpal who stood about 3 feet tall right behind the closet door where I banished her and her evil glassy stare.
You can’t hide them in the closet. Then they’re IN THE CLOSET. ALL NIGHT. You might as well put them under your bed.
Sadly, been there. I fell for a perpetual motion toy where a ball bearing circles in a cone, drops into the center on a metal track with a curved lip to propel the ball
bearing back to the cone. Fascinating!! My grandson will love it! When it finally arrived about six weeks later (from China), the parts wouldn’t fit together on the base. I had to bend the metal track to make it fit; the ball bearing either flew across the room or fell off the track…
I did that with a toy drone.
And don’t get me started on shoes that show up in my ads. They claim to have arch support and be “the most comfortable shoes you’ll ever buy,” and when they arrive, they are so narrow that the arch support is in the middle of my flat foot, and the toes are pinched in a point. And they’re from China so don’t bother returning them. I just gave away a bunch of shoes to the Veterans because it took me a few tries to learn not to order shoes from a Facebook or Twitter ad!
This is how you end up trying to find Skechers for formal occasions.
Yes! I want that shirt! Thanks for the chuckle.
Murr
I remember your post about the overalls……the pic did it for me. I have NEVER again been tempted. So thanks!
You still remember the halibut suit! Yeah, it’s seared onto my retinas also.
If you order that shirt, what will likely arrive is a white sweatshirt with actual bugs stapled to it.